Apparently, it is a new trend in the blogging world to have fewer comments, because people who used to comment on blogs are now busy managing their own online presence on Facebook, Twitter, etc. I have been commenting much less for a while too. One of my reasons is that I don’t know anymore how to control what becomes known about me on the Internet.
All the social media websites, like Google+, Facebook and Twitter these days try to connect with each other creating a wide web of personal information that floats freely on the Internet many times without our own knowledge and very little of our control. You can stay away from it and not sign up for online socializing, but then if you are someone like me, someone who’s trying to promote their products or services online, it is almost impossible to avoid social media. You will remain invisible if you try. For example, I use my Gmail account for most of my personal communications and I have been trying to use my hosted website email address (at loritironpandit dot com) for my professional communication and most of my online presence (I do not do much of personal communication online–my personal Facebook page is rarely opened). For commenting on blogs, for example, out of all the choices I am often given to sign in and “comment as” I used to always choose Name/website url, not the Google profile, not the WordPress.com page, etc. But I have recently noticed that my comments don’t make it on the pages where they belong because they are sorted as spam and the blog administrators don’t get to see my comments and approve them. I am suspecting this is happening because of my personal e-mail address.
One problem I have in signing in with these social media usernames is that they all request both first name and last name. I find that irritating. I do not want someone to search Google for my first and last name, and stumble upon a clutter of unrelated comments I have left here and there online. I want them to find my professional website and related work. Also, I do not want people interested in my work to come upon lists of my personal friends or photos of personal nature that I basically intended only for friends and family. I could of course create a completely fictitious profile on Google for example, but that does not look professional, does it?
I don’t even know who I am anymore. Does this happen to you? If you have found a way to deal with this, please let me know.
In very much related news, I don’t know if you noticed another small change over here: I created the most adorable social media buttons for my website (see, there in the sidebar?). I am also trying to be more active on Twitter and Facebook, because I guess I feel I have to, if I want anyone to ever know that I write some books and yes, I would like one or two people to read them, if it’s not too much of a bother, pretty please and forever grateful.
Completely unrelated to the topic of this post are the images of beautiful spring flowers that illustrate it. I hope you don’t mind them too much. We have been going out to the city whenever the weather has been good during this so-called spring, so not that often, but it happened, and it was very pleasant when it did. It’s been raining for a few days now and the cold has been really upsetting, I mean, come on, spring, over here! (Unconvincingly flailing tired arms in the air.) Looking at these flowers makes me feel better, though. Hope they do something for you too.